Mindful Fathering® Program: Broadening Horizons - Yorktown Family Services
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Mindful Fathering® Program: Broadening Horizons

The objective of the Mindful Fathering program is to Support men to become the fathers they want to be. As it happens, this is aligned with the York Pennsylvania YWCA’s Fatherhood Initiative under the umbrella of their Mindfulness Initiative, launched in 2017.

Ruby Martin, Chief Child and Youth Program Officer, at the York Pennsylvania YWCA explains the process that brought them to the decision that Mindful Fathering was the “next level” in parent education, “When we came across Yorktown’s Mindful Fathering program we reached out to Karen Blake, Manager, Community-Based Violence Prevention Programs for information. We were very impressed by the beautiful curriculum and recognized how much time and energy has gone into making this program so stellar. Clearly, great effort has ensuring that it is culturally responsive and thoughtful about the bigger picture of bringing mindfulness to dads.”

After careful and thorough consideration on behalf of stakeholders, York Pennsylvania YWCA purchased the Mindful Fathering program. In October of 2018, Ruby Martin and Youth Program Officer, Christen Coscia, Mindfulness Education Coordinator, flew to Toronto for two days of training. According to Christen, “Our experience with the Yorktown Team was wonderful! We could not have been happier with our training. We felt so welcomed. Our time with the Yorktown Team became more than a training session; it became a unique partnership.”

The YWCA Team also includes Peter Oates, Family Engagement Director and Early Learning Centre Director, who now facilitates the Mindful Fathering program. “As the person who handles the engagement piece at the YWCA, I feel that Mindful Fathering completes the puzzle on how to help dads be awesome. There couldn’t be a better solution. We are looking forward to being able to provide that for our fathers, here, in York,” says Peter, “We can’t wait to get started.”

Yorktown is thrilled to broaden the horizons of the Mindful Fathering program with our YWCA of York Pennsylvania partners as the first team to deliver it in the United States. Ruby, Christen, and Peter have been wonderful to work with! We look forward to continuing our consultations, building our relationship, and being able to work with all of you in the future.

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Mindful Fathering Program Trainers and Participants; from left to right:

Rodrigo Moreno, Mindful Fathering Program Co-facilitator
Liisa Kuuter, Mindful Fathering Program Co-facilitator
David O’Brien, Director of Infant, Child, and Youth Mental Health Services
Ruby Martin, Chief Child and Youth Programs Officer, YWCA York, Pennsylvania
Christen Coscia, Mindfulness Education Coordinator, YWCA York, Pennsylvania
Suzette Arruda-Santos, Executive Director
Karen Blake, Manager of Community-Based Violence Prevention Programs

Quotes from Mindful Fathering Clients:

“I’ve never talked with other guys about stuff like feelings, my relationship, my problems, and especially about the fears I have for my family. It really helped me to open up and it felt really good. I didn’t think other guys felt the same way about their stuff.”

“Men are under a lot of pressure to be strong and tough – I’ve SO let that go. Now my wife, kids and I work as a team and we are all way more happy.”

“My child was hurting others and I realized that I was role modeling the same behaviour.”

“My entire family has changed! And I realize it’s because I’ve changed.”

“I wouldn’t have wanted my daughters to marry men like me; like I was before Mindful Fathering.”

“I have learned that taking responsibility for my own actions and being a positive role model is the most important part about being a dad.”

“I’m sincerely grateful for having had the opportunity to learn how to be a better father.”

content child in the arms of his father

The 2nd Edition of the Mindful Fathering® Program Delivery and Training Manual was launched March 1, 2019.

To date, over 235 fathers have successfully completed the Mindful Fathering Program.

Mindful Fathering® is an evidence-informed group program promoting attuned parenting and healthy relationships to reduce harm and abuse.

The Mindful Fathering® website, www.mindfulfathering.ca was launched in February, 2019.

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